So many changes, so many friendships,lost and found, so many tears that flowed down my cheeks. And so when in doubt I was forced to retreat into my shell. To observe from the spy glass, and to take stock of life and see what is important to me. This is why there has been little activity both here and in the story site. But still the hive of activity in reality and SL, continues to thrum its way. New opertunities arise almost daily, and information that comes from unexpected sources brings both joy and sadness on the wind.
So heres a few of the changes to My SL for the new year…Mistress has kindly allowed me to attempt a challenge this year, which has pread to two fold challenges rolled into one. And the other changes listed here are more emotionally charged.
- I am Partnered to my petal !
- I am to stay in my” ten” for most of the year apart from sailing and two other exceptions
- I am no longer gifted the abilty to shrink or remove my expanding breast forms, without permission.
- Since my failure with Cidri, I may not collar another without Mistress`s permission.
- Friends requests must now be routed through My Mistress.
- I may no longer wear ” Pink” without direct authorisation.
- I may or may not be capped for mesages and im`s.
- I will maintain a link to Sailing
- I will cruise once a month.
People go and people stay, like the tides. A few I remove, A few remove themselves. the rare list is the “Blocked and muted ” list and the even more rare group still are ” derezzed” buton the whole SL is like RL friends come, freinds go, for reasons we mostly dont know to be fair.
Some diplomacy was required over the yule tide period and as such my 102 friends list is now less than 75. Its almost spring cleaning ! But I have to say, some people have been removed this yule simply due to their choices and changes in their choices and limits have prompted me to remove then and add a few to the rare list. Trust has a lot to do with this, but also the words “emotions, feelings and disgust” feature in my choices of friends..
After the amount of tears that have flooded Mistress`s shoulder, I have chosen to restrict my friends list additions mostly to save me pain. And as such will now pass all requests to My Mistress and Owner.
Its with some sad regrets that i have chosen to set the pacha aside for a while, and let her rest perhaps a perminant retirement for her. We have had some real fun with the pacha over the last year, But yesterday at the Rainbow cruise a choice was made that changes the reasoning for the pacha to be there, as such I now run the Bandit IF a new challenge !
Also we enjoyed the first 2 hour cruise of the eyar yesterday with Rainbow Sails Yacht`s Club. and really enjoyed it even though LL had decided to do maintance !
Yet more sadness as Topless Sailors closes its doors…Rather than struggle to keep the cruises going and run them as a sad reflection of their former selves, The management have decided it is best to draw a line and take a break from them. The Topless cruises have been great fun,In fact Its something i really got a kick out of doing even though i did spend some great times totally nude on the sea bed holding improptue tea parties with my good friends lucka gypsy and deni ! Any one who has been to the depths and archives of the Flickr will see the fun we had.. I am both proud and grateful to have been able to play a part in The topless Sailor legend! We have all made good friends, so it is with genuine sadnessthat ther managements come to this decision. But I join with othes and hope they will be remembered in all their fun and wacky glory. And who knows maybe one day ….
So I am laying here on the deck of my new boat…. typing this out to you .. and making a choice to post better and more posts… as water laps the side of the boat, I am reminded that people are like tides.. they come they go ….