1.) What does submission mean to you? Surrender? How is this different from passivity? Are the two connected?
Would you rather surrender or be conquered? Why?
2.)What parts of you are submissive? What parts of you are dominant or a switch? How do you balance out these different parts of yourself?
Ya know ok, set “a” prompt for debate and dicussion, thats one thing, but machine gun firing questions so two prompts becomes ” ten ” questions to be answered thats a bit RICH! But i`ll have a go ! cracks nkucles and sits at the desk
What does submission mean to you?
Submission in my case, is complete total trust, power exchange in the extreme. In this case this means that I trust my owner, so much, that I will not refuse Her any whim or wish She has set for me to accompish. Some tasks are harder than others, some painful physically and mentally. But i trust Her enough to say, I will never refuse, never say no, Never judge nor allow myself to question Her request. I submit my mind body and all that i am to Her whim, and in doing so I become Free.
Perhaps the hardest thing of all was to” surrender “complete and total trust and power exchange in this way. indeed for me it was the hardest of all. Becasue yous ee, I have been thee so many times in my past, that I could not and would not allow another to have done , knowing what I know about each of those attempts. But this is not so. you see Dear reader, in all the attempts, I have betrayed the oldest human trait of all i guess, and kept a peice of me back. Now that sounds like i didnt really believe. But thouse of you that know me, or my past, will know that is not true, if i commit its 100 %… but in truth that was not the case, Not really.. because fear of being hurt seriously hurt keeps you just a little back a little more reserved each time. And lets face it, I`ve been Seriously hurt enough in real time. But When I sat with Her, Talked to Her, I bared all. And make no mistake I mean ALL, my sins, all my kinks, all my desires, all my wants, and wishes and needs and I surrendered everything to Her. I surrendered me. Willingly..
How is this different from passivity?
This ones easier to type than for some to understand. Once you’ve learned the concepts and rules of the lifetyle, and practiced and played a little, the difference between active and passive surrender isn’t too difficult to figure out. Stop and take the time to think about what the focus is on, and look for tell tale signs of a passive surrender . to be not fully ommited to the core subject. . Armed with this knowledge, you can make strong statements that encourage you to think on the total surrender. And the failings you have made befoe because you didnt commit fully to a system that is designed to allow you to be Free.
Are the two connected?
Ok Ok i read this like FIVE times !! Are they connected ? Of course, by You, if you dont connect passivity and focused directed commitment, your not human … ok ok I read it six times… the connectin between the surrender and passivity is obvious but the question is subtle and reffers to a deeper philosophy. But when you boil it down ? the conenction is simply your desire to commit complete and total to a course that will if you let it guide your world.
Would you rather surrender or be conquered?
Having done both in real life, I`d rather surrender of my own free will, than have it broken from me. Taken by force. Coerced.
Like a flower, or fruit that you have grown yourself, better to give the gift, than force it from a person that cannot or will not share the gift. The gift is sweeter, tasty mouth fulls of fresh sweet meats, is a better way to add this. Forced, it is hollow, tasteless and ashen to the mouth that it feeds. the gift is submission, the gift is defiled, if it is stolen.
What parts of you are submissive?
Now see this is a trick question?, ” ALL of me is” I hear you call out ?. but no, its not, and no your not, nor am I .. you see the defination of submissive and slave is rather different.. So all of me ? “no” my blood is my own, my heart is my own. My thougths whims desires, ae my own …. these i gift seperately to Her.
What parts of you are dominant or a switch?
Now your gonna throw this spanner in the whole kit and kaboodle?? Seriously? .. ok lets try to clear this one up !…I am a switch, that means that I am dominant and submissive. The Mistress Rose kneels to ONE person alone ..This is to say, I Rose Brightflame Submit myself to Brace Mao Brightflame. It also says that to all other sI`m a Mistress. Now heres where the question gets a little tricky !. what parts of me aer domme? all of me when i`m domme. what parts aer switchy ? all of me when i`m not a domme. what parts are slave only ? is the unasked question, all of me when i`m not switchy or domme.. Now lets really throw a fox in the chicken coup .. I kneel to One I own One I may Own More one day , AND I protect six, and I mentor twelve… and if you work it out come find me in world and let me know ..
what flips your switch?
This ^ is a bonus question !…
How do you balance out these different parts of yourself?
OK this one made me grab a coffee and think hard about this .. AND your going to hate the best answer I can come up with ….
She does ….
till next week . Stay safe and know your loved..by someone .. somewhere …