By this point in time, one or two of you MAY have noticed I am, for the most part, a Lesbian. AS such the most of my relationships are with predominantly the Female of the species. This does NOT say “I hate men!” Nor does it say ” I have never known a real man in my bed!” But it should say clearly! I prefer Ladies to guys in my bed. OKOK maybe not just my bed!
However a debate late last night, Brought up a point, I had not thought of. Someone mentioned, And I’m not going to name names here. But someone mentioned that I had in earlier posts pointed out that I have a thing for a certain She male ( coughs ZZ) and that may or may not contribute to the whole being a lesbian thing as Shemales and trans are in some list or other. Which means I am not a true lesbian.
OK lets clear this up, so there is no confusion. It`s not about Who you are in real time, NOT about what you are in Real or in SL. ITS about how You present yourself to me. SO if you present as an arsehole tada guess how you will be treated?… If you present Female you are treated female with all that goes with it ! if you present male You will be treated accordingly This is NOT to say you`ll be treated less than a woman merely you won`t be likely to get that extra attention and flirty-ness that I seem to be attached to:P
NOW, It`s also untrue that I don’t have men on my friend’s list, I do in fact some of my closest friends are male. And some of them Titus , Otto, Jasper KREG ( the guy with the abba collection.) are Friends that I do care about AND trust . OK ? clear enough ….
I`m still bemused by these trunks!
So to be fair how You present yourself to me, Is how you will be treated, No matter the bio sanity of the situation. Recently, I have had occasion to mail One of my top listed crushes. ( moans softly and blushes Yes She knows Who she is!) And during the conversation, I had to make a statement to assure Her that she’s Perfectly safe….Me being a raging lesbo and Her being Entirely Hetro…to be friends….without the benefits… so I made a statement to allow me to clarify .
“I am Married to Two women in SL . One of which is my owner the other I own. and both I love dearly, perhaps more than I should. But so far more than I have for any online relationship” One of these keeps me in a chastity belt the other keeps my morals in check ( i`ll let you work out which ones which !)
LOVE MY OWL and My Slave wife with all i am ..